Tips for planning your engagement party

Natasha Grant

5 top tips for planning an engagement party

Photo of Veuve Clicquot champagne bottle and champagne glasses
With Engagement Season in full swing, now seems like an ideal time to share some top tips about planning an engagement party. An engagement is the perfect time to celebrate and capture all the excitement as you start this new chapter. 
One key aspect to keep in mind is the timeline between your engagement and the start of your wedding planning journey. It may be tempting to jump right in and start making wedding arrangements. However,  take a few months to savor the joy of your engagement, it's a very special time.

1. Your engagement party guest list

Deciding who to invite is crucial, make a list of your friends, family and colleagues and whittle this down to the key people you want to celebrate with you. Agreeing this now, will also help with choosing your wedding guest list as anyone who makes the guest list for your engagement party can also be invited to the wedding. 


Close up of a black man holding the hand of a black woman who is wearing a round diamond engagement ring

2. Your engagement party venue


Once you know roughly how many people you want to invite, you can start to look for a suitable venue. Choosing the perfect venue that matches your vibe and party goals. It’s all about finding a space that reflects your unique personality and sets the tone for an unforgettable party.


If you want a more laid-back vibe for your engagement party, you could consider holding your celebration at a chic restaurant, your favourite bar (if they have private space to hire), or a luxurious hotel.

3.  Party Food and Drink

Picture of a buffet food table displaying spicy beans in wraps and mini chicken burgers on white stands

Food and drink is key to your party vibe. You can’t go wrong with great food and drink. Consider, your party style.Is it relaxed, then canapes and cocktails  or sharing platters may work perfectly. If its more formal a sit down meal might be your preference, incorporating a dining experience with customized menus. 


It is essential to have some bubbles available for the special toasts at some point during your party. Keep the drinks flowing for you and your guests and make sure to have some bubbly on hand for those special toasts.


4.  Party Dress Code

Consider whether you want a party dress code or do you want it to be more relaxed. Cocktail attire is the perfect choice for any occasion without a specific dress code. It’s versatile enough to take you from daytime festivities to evening fun. The tone and style of the party will determine how your guests should dress. If it’s a formal event with a party theme, inform your guests of your preferred dress code with plenty of time, so that they can plan their outfits.

Asian woman in lime green dress holding a drink and dancing next to a white man in a blue suit smiling and dancing

5.  Set the party scene

Once you settle on the planning logistics, it's time to envision and decide on the décor. Just like every other engagement party detail, the theme and decorations can be as simple or as elaborate as you'd like. Since the focus is on celebrating the two of you, capture the magic of your proposal. Choose an aesthetic that will create this upbeat, joyous atmosphere.


Consider decorating the guest tables at a dinner party or food stations at a cocktail party with floral arrangements and elegant candles to help set the mood. You could also make a statement with your decor and include personal touches including photos of the two of you, to keep your guests in awe all night long.

I hope this gives you some great tips for planning your engagement party. You can’t go wrong with a party that includes eating, drinking, dancing, and mingling. Just make sure that you include elements that reflect your personality and shared interests in order to create a true reflection of your love story. 



If you want help planning your party, to reduce the hassle then get a party planner like me on board. I work with you from a months before your party, to bring everything together for you. Sourcing the right suppliers, running the day and styling every detail for you, to make your party that extra bit special. So that when your guests arrive, everything is set and looking beautiful for your wonderful celebratory evening ahead.  Please  get in touch to discuss working together and we will arrange a complimentary consultation.


Natasha


About the Author


Natasha is the founder and lead planner at Pearline Events, a London-based wedding planning business specialising in vibrant multicultural celebrations and dry-hire venues. With her background of over a decade of experience in Civil Service project management, she brings unparalleled logistics and problem solving skills, plus creative flair to create seamless, colourful weddings. Her work has been featured in numerous online and print publications.


Named after her late grandmother, 'Pearline' means precious, reflecting Natasha's belief that every love story is unique and deserves a wedding that reflects its true spirit and you. She helps couples fuse their cultures into an exquisitely elegant day, ensuring they arrive relaxed and joyful.


Ready for a relaxed, joyful planning journey? Get in touch.

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