7 tips for deciding drink quantities for your multicultural wedding

Natasha Grant

How to choose drinks for your wedding

Black groom in dark blue suit cheers bride in white dress with champagne whilst seated outside

Planning a multicultural wedding in London (or anywhere else) is an exciting opportunity to celebrate love and diverse traditions. One key aspect to consider is how much to serve when it comes to drinks. Making sure you have the right amounts of wines, beers and spirits for your wedding can be a tricky task - with lots of different factors in play. Here are seven tips to help you as engaged couples navigate drink quantities for your wedding day:

1.Know your wedding guest list

Start with a solid headcount, have a look at tips for tackling your wedding guest list. Understanding the demographics of your guests can help you anticipate preferences—whether they prefer cocktails, wine, or non-alcoholic beverages.

2. Cultural Considerations

Consider the cultural backgrounds of your guests. Some cultures may prefer specific drinks, while others might have restrictions on alcohol. Offering a variety of options, including traditional beverages, can make everyone feel included.


Bar man holding a tray of red cocktails with fruit in it and black and white stripy straws

3. Create a Signature Cocktail:

Craft a unique cocktail that reflects your story or heritage. This not only personalizes your wedding but can also streamline your drink choices, reducing the need for a vast selection of spirits. Also consider including a mocktail for those who don’t drink.

4. Wedding Drinks - estimate consumption

A general rule of thumb is to estimate about two drinks per person for the first hour and one drink for each subsequent hour. Adjust this based on the length of your reception and the time of day and always provide a mix of alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages to ensure that all guests, including those who don’t drink alcohol, feel catered to. At a minimum for a wedding you will likely need to supply drinks for the drinks reception, then beverages to accompany the wedding breakfast, something to toast with, and of course drinks for your evening party.


5. Consult Your Wedding Venue

Speak with your venue’s catering team or bartenders (if they have one). They often have experience with weddings and events and can offer valuable insights into what quantities work best based on your guest count and drink selection.

A group of champagne glasses displayed on gold pedestal's and surrounding by foliage and orange and peach flowers


6. Consider your bar options

Depending on the venue you book there are different bar options you can have. For example 

  1. Cash Bar – The bar company (or venue)  supplies the drinks and manages everything that is required. Guests pay for all their drinks either by cash or card. 
  2. Pre-Paid Bar – You decide on a prepayment to ‘put behind the bar, otherwise known as a ‘Tab’. Payment is made prior to your wedding, and if this amount is reached during your wedding you have the choice to extend the amount and/or continue as a cash bar. 
  3. Open Bar – The bar company will supply all drinks and manage everything that is required but you pay for this in advance and guests don’t pay for any drinks. The cost is dependent on the number of guests, the length of hours you will be serving drinks and the specific drinks required. 


7. Plan for Leftovers

 

Finally, don’t be afraid to overestimate a little—especially for wine and beer. Unconsumed alcohol can often be returned or saved for future gatherings, so it’s better to have a bit too much than too little.

By considering these tips, you can ensure your wedding celebration flows smoothly and reflects the beautiful blend of cultures in attendance.


If you want help planning your dream wedding contact me to arrange a complimentary consultation.


Natasha


About the Author


Natasha is the founder and lead planner at Pearline Events, a London-based wedding planning business specialising in vibrant multicultural celebrations and dry-hire venues. With her background of over a decade of experience in Civil Service project management, she brings unparalleled logistics and problem solving skills, plus creative flair to create seamless, colourful weddings. Her work has been featured in numerous online and print publications.


Named after her late grandmother, 'Pearline' means precious, reflecting Natasha's belief that every love story is unique and deserves a wedding that reflects its true spirit and you. She helps couples fuse their cultures into an exquisitely elegant day, ensuring they arrive relaxed and joyful.


Ready for a relaxed, joyful planning journey? Get in touch.

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